I'm a creative professional with experience in financial services and online media.
Relationships
Oct 2, 2026
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7 min read
They cost me not just time but also my wellbeing and dignity.
+1
Sep 23, 2026
11 min read
How I rebuilt my self-worth, challenged the beliefs that kept me accepting less, and changed the way I chose a partner.
Sep 18, 2026
13 min read
What I did during my ultimate dating break to stablise my life and eventually meet my husband
Sep 10, 2026
9 min read
Changing the men never changed the ending.
Sep 5, 2026
The real attachment wasn’t to him; it was to the familiar act of abandoning myself to win recognition from someone withholding it.
Ruthless Advice
Aug 27, 2026
4 min read
My ruthless advice column: you ask, I answer ruthlessly.
Quiz
Aug 22, 2026
The 7 Foundational skills you need to date like you matter
Aug 20, 2026
You know what life you want, and you choose a partner who chooses you, loves you, and builds that life with you.
Jul 8, 2026
2 min read
Jun 24, 2026
3 min read
Jun 16, 2026
Jun 8, 2026
1 min read
18 *REVEALING* questions to ask yourself before you date. Free. Instant access.
Jun 7, 2026
The unfair advantage that turned my life around in my mid-20s
Foundational skills
May 31, 2026
5 min read
How to turn every experience, especially the painful ones, into self-knowledge you can act on
May 30, 2026
21 min read
The full post of my viral Instagram series: Uncomfortable things you had to do to marry well
Identity & Work
May 23, 2026
After 15 years in the UK, the chip on my shoulder finally fell off. I got what I came for, and I'm ready to use it to serve me before anyone else.
May 16, 2026
I avoided labouring for men in relationships only to realise I've already laboured plenty for the systems they run.
May 9, 2026
Intense feelings aren't really the problem. Here's what high-intensity women actually need.
May 2, 2026
The difference between the life that broke me at 24 and one that holds me at 31
Mar 10, 2026
Inner child parenting, shadow work, and the parts of yourself worth going back for
