Ruthless Advice

Ruthless Advice

Should I date people I don't find physically attractive if my usual type is toxic?

Jul 8, 2026

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2 min read

Should I date people I don't find physically attractive if my usual type is toxic?

My ruthless advice column: you ask, I answer ruthlessly.

Ellen Nguyen

Ruthless Advice

Men talked marriage then pulled away at 4 months. Am I missing red flags?

Jun 24, 2026

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3 min read

Men talked marriage then pulled away at 4 months. Am I missing red flags?

My ruthless advice column: you ask, I answer ruthlessly.

Ellen Nguyen

Ruthless Advice

My boyfriend went 4 days without talking. Should I break up with him?

Jun 16, 2026

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3 min read

My boyfriend went 4 days without talking. Should I break up with him?

My ruthless advice column: you ask, I answer ruthlessly.

Ellen Nguyen